Family Loans in Divorce: Real Debt or Convenient Story?
May 13, 2026
It is a situation that arises regularly in family law property settlements.
One party claims that they owe a substantial sum of money to their parents. Sometimes it is a few hundred thousand dollars. In other cases, it runs into the millions.
The immediate reaction is often scepticism. It is common to hear the allegation that the loan is a “sham” — something created to reduce the asset pool and limit what the other party receives.
But what happens when the loan is real?
Does that mean the Court must take it into account?
A recent decision of the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia shows that the answer is not as straightforward as many people might think.
A Claimed Debt of More Than $4 Million
In this case, the husband claimed that he owed approximately $4.6 million to his parents and companies associated with them.
This was not a vague or undocumented arrangement. The Court accepted that money had in fact been advanced and that there were loan agreements in place. There was even a form of security said to be attached to the debt.
On the face of it, this appeared to be a genuine liability. If accepted in full, it would have significantly reduced the value of the asset pool available for division between the parties.
However, despite accepting that the loan existed, the Court ultimately chose to disregard it when determining the property settlement.
Why the Court Ignored a “Real” Loan
The key issue for the Court was not simply whether the debt existed. Instead, the Court focused on the practical reality of the situation.
In particular, the Court considered whether the debt was ever likely to be enforced.
The evidence showed that although the loan had been in place for many years, the alleged creditors — being the husband’s parents and related entities — had taken no meaningful steps to recover the money. The debt had effectively remained dormant for a long period of time. It was only around the time of the separation and the commencement of proceedings that steps were taken to call in the loan.
There were also difficulties in establishing the precise amount said to be owing.
In those circumstances, the Court was not satisfied that it would be fair for the wife to have her entitlement reduced by reference to a liability that was uncertain and unlikely to be enforced in any real sense.
Does Security Make a Difference?
An argument was made that the loan had to be taken into account because it was “secured” against property.
The Court rejected that argument.
It made it clear that the existence of security does not automatically mean that a debt must be deducted from the asset pool. What matters is not just how the arrangement is documented, but how it operates in reality.
A loan involving a bank or commercial lender will usually be treated very differently from an arrangement involving close family members. The Court is entitled to examine the nature of the relationship and the likelihood that the creditor will actually enforce their rights.
Looking Beyond the Paperwork
The decision highlights an important principle in family law property settlements. The Court is not limited to simply accepting documents at face value.
Even where a loan is genuine, the Court can consider whether it is:
- clearly established in terms of amount
- actively being enforced
- or, in practical terms, likely to be enforced at all
If the answer to those questions is uncertain, the Court may decide that it is not appropriate to treat the liability as one that reduces the asset pool.
This is particularly relevant in cases involving loans from parents or other close family members, where the expectation of repayment may be very different from that of a commercial arrangement.
What This Means in Practice
This case demonstrates that the existence of a “real” loan does not automatically determine the outcome of a property settlement.
The Court has a broad discretion to achieve a just and equitable result. That includes deciding how liabilities should be treated and whether it would be fair for one party to share responsibility for them.
For people involved in family law disputes, this is an important point. A claim that money is owed to family members should not simply be accepted at face value. Equally, the fact that a loan is properly documented does not guarantee that it will reduce the asset pool.
Each case turns on its own facts, and the surrounding circumstances will be closely examined.
Need Advice About a Property Settlement?
Disputes about loans from family members can have a significant impact on the outcome of a family law property settlement. These issues are often complex and require careful analysis of both the documents and the broader circumstances.
Websters Lawyers have extensive experience in handling property settlement disputes, including cases involving alleged debts and family loan arrangements. We can assist you in understanding how the Court is likely to treat these issues and what it may mean for your entitlements.
We offer a free initial telephone consultation to discuss your situation and provide practical advice on your options.
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Conclusion
This case is a clear reminder that in family law, the Court looks beyond appearances.
Even where a loan is real, the critical question is whether it should affect the division of property between the parties. If the debt is uncertain or unlikely to be enforced, the Court may decide that it should not reduce the asset pool at all.
For anyone facing a property settlement where significant debts are being claimed, obtaining early legal advice can make a substantial difference to the outcome.


